Be With a Man....

At this point, the partner might be at bed already, snoring and maybe having a good time at his bed. I was disturbing him early this morning but he is on a meeting with some vendors but he texted me late this lunch that he is preparing to leave already. That's how our routine is, we may be far of distance but its like we are so close to each other. We tend to share how our day was even the littlest details of our everyday life. That, i think helps both couple cope up with the long distance dilemma.

I'm honestly thinking how in the world i end up with him and how in this earth i am saving the best of me for him. Now, i knew it. He is the only man who creates dreams for me, the only man sensitive enough for my needs and welfare and of course no matter how bad my day was, he would always tells me that it's just another day and tomorrow maybe something different. I remember the other week, i told him about my sites being hacked and that it gave me so much stressed, that i am so stupid not doing some backups and i realized he is good in comforting, Instead of telling me that i am stupid or blah,,blah..He simply just share how he was put in the same mess as mine and he just make the situation a little lighter for me, which is very helpful as it made my mood a little lighter and in the end it was settled the way i wanted it to be.

Few years back, i never expect things will end up this way. Thus, i buy the idea that God will never allow you to be with someone invaluable for you, HE will make ways that you will be with a man who will love you the way you want to be loved, if you just asked for HIS grace. Ours is tested by time, tested by trials and circumstances. But i think, whatever happened in the past is just a mere reminder of our respective priority and at this point, i long no one than to be with him and look after his needs.

Needless to say, we all want happy endings and mostly we want it to happen at the most romantic sense possible, exchanging of vows. I honestly want it more than i want any material things but i leave it all to Prayers and to my God. Time is very sensitive at this point but with my God, nothing is impossible. Well, who knows he will get the first flight tomorrow and be with me, Only Time Can Tell, right folks?

Green Matters for Your Home

Last weekend, the partner made a great revamp on his kitchen. I was at the mall with my sister when he phoned me up. I was wondering why he still awake considering it was really late, the reason - the contractor who made the fridge built in system on his kitchen forgot his mobile phone and that he waited for them to get it back. Without much to do, he just watched a movie first and called me up to while away time. He told me that he was just planning to make an upgrade on his fridge and wants to make it look appealing so instead of availing $8,800 package for a thorough make over. He, instead hired a contractor and just buy the parts and materials at a direct store. He then saved, $3,300 for that. An amazing deal indeed, right? Well, don't actually be surprised, the partner is a businessman so he knows the market and he can't be easily be swayed by a lucrative package.

In any case, i just stumbled a site today that specializes in kitchen design New York. I think they are  a nice resource if my partner would avail of a green kitchen design. I knew a lot of home owners nowadays are switching to green matters since we all knew the devastating effect of abusing the environment. Thus, the green kitchen design looks classy and appealing, like this one...

So, if you like the design and lay-out of above image then go ahead, contact contractor Brooklyn. They offer wide array of services from kitchen renovation, cabinet designs and other renovation and construction services.I just love the ouput they made at renovation Manhasset and i think the site is worth of your penny and time.

Just a piece of advice homeowners, getting the right contractor is not an easy job. Your friends recommendation sometimes don't work well in your case. So, it pays if you check out personally and research for the right company.As of today, i think nothing but elitekb.com for such kind of services.

Blessed with Task

Ohh, i knew you may wonder why i suddenly became visible on this site. Well, the ultimate reason, i have an advertiser here so no wonder im posting an update. So, i was smiling early morning as i knew it means something else to my online account. I am indeed grateful that i have a bunch of reviews to do, apart from the task i have here i have also tasks in queue in my favorite site. At least, it pays to be a hard worker.

So, how's your Tuesday morning doing? I hope you are all doing great guys. Have a blessed day bloggers!!!

10 Ways to be Happy

As they say, Happiness is a choice. No one can tell you what to do to be happy because it's within our self to decide to feel good and be good to others. When you treat others warmly then it's a clear indication of your self status but when you treat other people differently then it explains everything.

For people out there who are searching for happiness then let me say this, it all starts within you. Choose to be good. Choose to be happy.

When It's Time To Cut the Rope...

A lot of people will agree that love isn't just a journey of happy endings. In fact, if you happened to watch the interview of the Queen of Comedy - AiAi to her recent break up with her husband, you will feel the pain that everyone of us is capable of feeling. Heartbreaks as they say is a part of relationship, Tell me who among here aren't experiencing arguments over your significant others and who among here aren't prone to heartbreak's?

When i was nursing a broken heart to my first bf, i remember having the perspective that maybe it's already the end of the world. I was like feeling depressed and bitter over the fact that he already found someone new and i was never the woman he has been dreaming all along. See, how painful that fact is and waking up each morning is far worst and sleeping is like a medicine. Like how i was born, cuddling with my pillow was my ultimate resort. I cried until my tears get dry and i pray for as long as i remember. True as they say, when you used with the pain already, there will be just a morning that will come that everything seems to be getting fine.

I admit, i rush unto finding a new lover as im afraid in being tagged as single and unhappy while my former lover was enjoying his new flame. Being a brat and immature, i entertained dating after a week and enjoy men's company. But then, after the day ends, i find myself alone and weeping as i can't understand myself thinking my ex still and moving on will never happen overnight.

I remember seeking counselling and enjoying my friends company a lot more. We watched movies, we did bar hopping and we traveled a lot. Yes, it helps but the most essential thing i learned is being with the people who makes you happy will eventually makes you a little better everyday until you eventually realize how your happiness is important and one day at a time, i forgot the pain and packed the pieces of those broken heart to eventually saying goodbye and cutting the rope that attached me to him.

For me, i found myself brave as i manage to surpass that stage but what amazed me is the realization that i can move on with just the thought of making myself happy and not doing it for the sake of letting him know that i moved on. At that, i just find this tips really helpful:

When It's Time To Let Go

1. If the thought of breaking up enters your mind more than once
2. When you start paying more attention to someone else
3. You want kids. He doesn’t.
4. If you haven’t been happy for a long time
5. When it gets dangerous
6. When you don’t trust him anymore
7. You are pressured to stay in the relationship

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Cry When You're Hurt

When face at adversity, we ladies tend to be so emotional. I am too and never an exemption. I mean whenever i am feeling blue, someone just makes me down or love problems, i can easily cry because of outburst of emotions. Well, crying as they say does not only cleanse your eyes but will make you feel better as well.

I'm no shame in admitting that i am emotional sometimes and while men wants to project that image of masculinity, i still buy the idea that crying doesn't makes you less of a woman nor a man.Do you think showing other people that you are weak, is something that you need to keep[ or hide. I don't think so - the strength of a woman or a man cannot be measured on how he reacts to shortcomings nor can never be measured in any benchmark in as far as emotions are concerned. Tears flow for some reasons and most often than not, it's because of extreme emotions that can never be kept at our heart.

So when you feel like crying or when you are in midst of broken heart then cry until you feel better. Don't kep it within as it more dangerous just making it stay for so long. Talk to your friends and let them know you're hurting, as it's only through tears or emotions that we feel more of a human.

What Not To Do When Stressed

Stress truly makes you a little in chaos. Why i say that? I remember my marketing days where i was deprived of sleep and truly i couldn't withstand a day without getting a sweet or ice cream for that. I don't know why i acted like that but it helps when you have something sweet to munch.

Just now, i realized that there are things you need to control when you are stressed. I knew you are aware if you need a little rest, don't you? At least checking out the best way to lessen mood shift will help a lot:

1. Stop Craving for Sweets

As they say, stress in one reason why you gain uncontrollably and i think i personally experience that. Just imagine getting a  box of chocolate and putting it at my drawer.

2. Control Your Emotion

Being deprived of sleep of anything that bothers you makes you angry easily. Do You experience suich? I do especially if im in between errands and i knew i still have lots of things to do, when someone triggers my patience, i can easily react and that i can't control my emotions anymore.

3. Never Decide when Your Stress

Never make a decision when your in the midst stress. I mean sometimes our feeling control our decision making and oftentimes we fail to weigh down things. Just make yourself rested first before making any decision.